Sermon Preached At Fulton 6-13-10
Today is fathers day and we want to take this morning to honor them
There are some very unique things about being a man that is so much better than being a woman
We can swim without a shirt, we can eat more, we’re stronger sometimes
We don’t have to talk on the phone and we don’t care if no one calls us
We don’t have to go shopping and we can still survive
We have this gift of driving somewhere and never ask for directions & sooner or later get to where we were going
We don’t cry over movies, its just a movie!
We only have to think about one thing at a time instead of multiple things like a woman!
There are many things that being a man is so much better than being a woman
And then when we become a father, it only gets better
We go outside with the kids and go on bike rides, hiking, camping, until their cranky & crying ; and then let mom take over
we play ball in the mud and roll around on the grass & then turn them over to mom!
I can’t think of a better life than being a dad!
When our kids were young I traveled allot and I would sometimes get home late at night after the kids were sound asleep
& I would peek into their rooms and they looked like sleeping angels & I would puff out my chest and think how blessed I was to have such beautiful kids and a little tear would come to my eye
But then they get older, and things change
I came home one night and peeked in & they were sleepin with their mouths wide open, drool running down their cheeks and snoring! A little tear came to my eye and I swore I would never peek in again and I haven’t!
Being a dad is rewarding but also exhausting but I never let being tired keep me from always being on top of everything
I would always look my family lovingly and deeply into their eyes as they talked about something and explaining things to me
and I would nod and smile as I hung unto their every word
And then my wife would say “You haven’t heard a word we said did you!”
And I would say of course I have, She would ask, repeat what we said!
And I would say, it was something about, can you give me a small hint?
We dads do have a habit of tuning out at times and we shouldn’t but it didn’t change the fact that they always had my heart
A good dads heart is always for his family, even when the kids were coming unglued & the noise level was getting so high that I had to keep turning up the T.V. s volume in order to hear Judge Judy & I would finally look to see what was going on, and my wife would be staring at me & I would say “WHAT?”
Yeah we do tune out and we shouldn’t , God never meant for us fathers to tune out and do our own thing
We are to be involved, listening and helping in every aspect of our children growing up and it doesn’t stop when our kids grow up, it continues into their adult lives and then when they have children of their own. We are to have a heart for our grandchildren, loving and listening to them
Theres a father in the bible that was just like all of us, he did many things wrong as we all have but he always had a heart for his family
Lk. 15:11 And he said a certain man had two sons
Luke begins by painting a picture for us, about a man who had 2 sons, and you can see the 3 of them together in their home, theres love & acceptance
vs.;12
And the younger of them said to his father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living
All of us men know what its like to leave home for 1st time
We all know what it means to become restless and want to get out on our own, we’re no different than this young man who thought he was ready to be on his own & so he asks for his inheritance and apparently his father had a good heart, but it must have been broken as he gave him his portion
But – important thing here is because – father loved his son, he let him go
One of – hardest things to do in a fathers life is to let his children go off to live their own lives
I know how hard it is on moms, and although we men don’t show it like moms do, its equally as hard on us
We fathers are the protectors, usually the main providers and when a man has protected and provided for yrs, its difficult to let it go
I look at this father who was heart broken, but he let him go because he loved him
vs.;13
It says he gathered his stuff and left for greener pastures
We’ve all heard the saying that you think the grass is greener on the other side and you know what?
It can be
If, the reason why your jumping the fence is to honor God with your life and take responsibility with providing for yourself and your family
But is this what this young man did? Apparently not, It says that he wasted everything he had on sin. He didn’t strike out on his own to honor God and to provide for himself, he left to party
Do you think his father knew he wasn’t ready? Absolutely because of what he did and said in vs20
His father saw him a great way off
His father was watching for when his boy would show up, he knew he wasn’t ready to leave home
He knew his boy had ulterior motives
Look what he says in vs.;24
My son was dead and is alive again, he was lost and is found
This father knew before the boy left, that he was leaving for all the wrong reasons but yet he never stood in his way
When I wanted to leave home, my dad in his wisdom, (that I didn’t see at the time) I just thought he wanted to get rid of me
But going into the army that my dad spent 28 yrs in, he knew that the army would either make me or break me
And I knew after 3 days in boot camp I had to either man up or stand in formation & start to cry like the guy behind me
I decided I wasn’t going to be the guy crying & I got with the program and I never went home again
Its this fathers heart that impresses me, he knew what was going to happen to the money that he had worked hard for his entire life & yet he turned it over to a son that wasn’t ready to receive it
But he was willing to spend it all if it meant that him & his son could have a relationship
This is an earthly picture of an heavenly lesson
This parable is really about God the Father and his relationship to mankind. We were dead and lost in our sins, we were living in a far country with pigs
The stink of the world was on our clothes & God says you can live there if you want
vs.;17
And when he had come to himself, he said, how many hired servants of my fathers have bread enough and to spare, and I parish with hunger
Look at the heart of God the Father who says I know who you are, I know what you have done and I know you deserve to be where you are
The Father in the parable could have said those same things to his son, you made your bed now lay in it & he would have every right to. But instead in vs.:20 it says when his boy came home his father had compassion and fell on his neck and kissed him
God the father gives us a choice, we can either live out in the world with nothing or you can come home
But wait a minute, what if this boy would have taken his inheritance & turned it into untold riches living out there in the far country?
He would still have nothing, he would still be in the far country without God, he would still be living in a pigpen of sin the pigpen of sin gives us nothing but death and separation from God for eternity.
The bible says that if anyone wants to leave the far country and come home that he will have compassion and run to meet us!
vs.;31
And he said unto him, son, thou art ever with me and all that I have is thine
Why would anyone stay in the far country away from God when you can inherit the riches of heaven?
I know we live in a world and a culture where fatherhood has taken a wrong turn
Men who prey on foolish women to have their fun, and then when she gets pregnant, the funs over & he takes off
Or the woman has had so many men that she has to go on T.V. and have dna test to figure out who’s the lucky man, and then she sits there as though she’s righteous and he’s the pig
I know many children grow up and look at their father with disgust and even hatred because their father has no heart for them
But theres one Father who says if you’ll come to me, I won’t ever leave you nor forsake you, He has a heart of compassion and love and will give you a heavenly inheritance that will never rust or rot but will last for eternity, He promises to bring us to his own home & give us a place of our own
Rev. 21 1-8